We are faced with every day is a direct correlation to our upbringing and the fact that we are stressed growing up to be nice with each other against our own feelings or judgements and when we are faced with a delicate situation which inadvertently will hurt somebody's feelings, we start lying,..bullshiting and creating an even bigger embarrassment for all the parties involved? I mean,..we know we're lying , they know they're being lied to but yet nobody wants to step up and face it,..instead the bullshit just proliferates itself?,...I don't know.